Some things of note for me. I learned this month not to ask questions you cannot stand the answers to. I have also learned that no matter how much you do the right things, the wrong things can effect you in ways you cannot imagine.
I have also learned that while you can be the master of your own destiny, you may not be heading toward the destination you had in mind. You have to be willing to change course, because you can't always see what's ahead. Navigation takes courage, skill and love of self. No one can give those things to you and no one can take them from you.
I happen to beileve that God has put us here for a reason, and while he is always there listening, and always there to give positive feedback, he has put the world in motion to see what we will do with it. I do not believe in manifest destiny, although I used to, and I don't see that view changing.
All of that to say, people will fuck you. They will. No matter how much you love them, support them, make them your life and your priorities, people will fuck you. And that, my friends, requires you to change route, and navigate the waters in a different way.
You just have to try to do it with as much dignity as possible.
All too often: "One deceipt, needs many others and so the entire house is built on the air and must soon come down".
Who can guard against deceipt? Who can protect themselves from lies? Who can forecast the future and look at someone and say... you my friend, will FUCK me! No one can... no one can say what the future will bring. So even if you're doing all the right things, sometimes course correction is forced. And it is what it is....
I apologize for the word 'fuck' being used in this post.
No comments:
Post a Comment